When something has gone wrong
How to deliver bad news to leadership
A project has slipped, a cost has risen, or a promised result is in doubt. This guide helps you raise it early, explain it plainly, and leave the conversation with an agreed response.
14 topics · 79 min · Press play to listen in order, or read any topic.
Punctuality
Phase 1 · 6 topics · 33 min
Get the facts and prepare what you will say
Bad news gets worse with waiting. Decide to speak up, find out exactly what has happened, and reduce it to what leadership must understand.
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Treat the warning itself as something that can be late. Telling leadership while they still have room to respond is part of delivering on time.
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Decide to say what is true even though it is unwelcome. People forgive a problem far more easily than discovering it was kept from them.
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Find out who needs to know, what they will have to decide, and what they care about most. This shapes everything you prepare.
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Lay out the sequence of events and look for the underlying cause. Leadership will ask how this happened, and a timeline answers it without blame.
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Choose the few points leadership must remember: what changed, the consequence, and the decision you need from them.
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Put the bad news and your recommendation first. Nobody should have to read to the end of a message to learn that a date has moved.
Your taskBefore continuing, write three sentences: what happened, what it means, and what you recommend.
Phase 2 · 4 topics · 23 min
Tell them and hear the reaction
Say it plainly, then stop and listen. How you handle the first reaction decides how the rest of the conversation goes.
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State the problem and what you need in plain words. Softening it until it is unclear only delays the moment they understand.
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Choose wording that keeps people working with you. You can be completely honest about the problem without assigning fault in the room.
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Expect frustration and stay steady when it comes. Calm lets you hear the real concern underneath a sharp question.
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Say their concerns back in your own words and let them correct you. It shows you understood, and it slows a tense exchange down.
Your taskBefore continuing, rehearse your opening sentence and your answer to the question you least want to be asked.
Phase 3 · 4 topics · 22 min
Agree on a response and keep people informed
The decision may not be the one you recommended. Finish by making sure everyone knows what was agreed and what happens next.
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Give your recommendation, then respect the decision of the people accountable for it, even when they choose differently.
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Ask what kind of help the affected people actually want. The support someone needs is not always the support you would first think to offer.
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Send the agreed plan in writing to everyone who needs it. A decision that lives only in a meeting is remembered differently by each person there.
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Keep reporting as the response unfolds: what is done, what is in progress, what remains, and what stands in the way.
Your taskFinish by sending a short written record of the decision, the owner of each action, and the date of the next update.